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Hi all,

 

New here, and I'll start by saying first off that I myself am not a cancer patient. I lost my dad to stomach cancer when he was 35 and I was 8. Now I'm 32 and a parent myself I'm becoming increasingly anxious about developing the same disease, to the point where I've been at the doctors frequently, made 2 A&E trips and been prescribed valium. 

Are there any other children of cancer victims who are experiencing the same fears as they are getting older? Not really sure what to do about it, nobody I know experienced this and the fear is taking over my life. I hope I haven't offended anyone given that I'm not suffering myself. 

 

Wishing you all lots of love,

Lucy.x

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    Hello Lucy,

    Welcome to Cancer Chat. Poor you it does sound like you need some help to deal with the health anxiety you are suffering from which seems to be very much linked to your dad passing away when you were a small child. It can take over your life but the good news is that help is available and you can make an appointment with your doctor, explain everything in detail and they may refer you for CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) which can help you break the cycle of these dark thoughts. If you are suffering from any unusual physical symptoms, do mention them to your GP as well.

    I hope you will get to chat to other children of cancer victims here and that it will help to share your fears and experiences.

    Best wishes,

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

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