Sylvia

My husband died 9 wk ago  my kids are very good  but life isnt the same  now i miss him so much  i just wish he could come back  and let me know he is ok 

  • Hi Syl,

    Finally able to reply. Storm Eunice took out my phone/wifi connection asthe tree outside the house lost a large branch and brought down the power cable with it.  Engineer came out yesterday afternoon and now all is well.  Sadly not so easy to replace the 6ft x 6ft wall at the end of my garden  which ended up flattened in the service alley!!  Awaiting fencing company to have panels back in stock as will replace with a fence this time round (wall built 7yrs ago to replace old fence lol.  Thankfully no injuries and my lovely next door neighbour lugged all the breeze blocks back to my side of the boundary so people could access their garages!

    Managed to travel up to see my daughter though the usual 2+ hour journey was nearly 4hrs with road and rail problems.  Arrived in time on Saturday to go out to lunch with the family and my son in law's Dad and wife and very nice meal at a good restaurant.  On Sunday 15 of us met up at the Indian restaurant booked for my daughter's birthday meal and it was a lovely catch up with exceptional food.  We then went back to their place for dessert....her two tier birthday cake made by my daughter in law.  I stayed overnight again and was due to catch the train home later in the morning but my son in law was not having any of it and after lunch at an American Diner they drove me back home bless them (still quicker doing the round trip than me taking public transport so I was very appreciative)..

    Just the usual routine for  me until Saturday when daighter and family come to me for the weekend. Have done all the necessary shopping and another chance to see them all.  When that is done I will get back to some sort of normal routine and catch up on my long walks and meet ups with friends.  Still doing three weekly gym visits and have now lost my first half stone in weight so really pleased. If I can keep motivated I will feel far more comfy in my summer clothes.

    Hope all is well with you and the family and fingers crossed you did not suffer damage from the various storms that have hit in the past week.  Take care.  Jules xx

  • Hi Jules,all the trouble you had with the wind it was awful  all over the country we escaped with  my next door neighbours panel  coming out that was all  my friendship group was cancelled as it was a terribly morning wet and windy so we didn't want to chance it as some of the ladies walk it .glad you enjoyed the family birthday with your daughter must have been nice to get together  and have a nice meal and birthday cake ,the weather has calmed down a bit now managed to go into town this morning for a few bits also went spec savers has my hearing aids are playing up so I have a appointment on Monday afternoon to see what is up with them,ranr the doctor Friday I have sciatica it's really bad at the moment have got to go the chemist Monday to pick some cream up hope it helps with the pain  ,think I'm out Sunday for dinner with the kids only to a local pub put they do a nice Sunday dinner   it has forecast a nice sunny day at last lol so will take George out  I'm the morning  before we go  out.   I'm at my dementia group Wednesday I didn't go last week as I was at the crem  I'm at the crem again on the first of march as it's my mum's birthday so will have a couple of hours with my sister before heading back home have a lovely week regards Syl x

  • Hi Syl,

    Well the wind dropped but today has been wet from start to finish and I have not been out walking which I really miss.  Did manage to withstand the weather to put a new feature in my garden which arrived yesterday.  It is a small  barrel pond which came as a kit and is now outside. I hope the aquatic plants will bring something a little different into my wildlife themed garden.  Time will tell.

    Trying to sort out the new boundary fence has taken a little while but am hoping that the same person who is currently doing a neighbour's fence will give me a quote and a timescale.  

    Met a friend yesterday and we went to the cinema; first time in ages.  We saw King Richard and it was very good.  Was good to be out and mask free too as the cinema was not crowded.  A touch of normality.

    Also last weekend with my daughter and family was good and they enjoyed a party on Saturday night whilst I looked after the grandchildren and dog.   They went home after a late lunch and I will probably see them again during the Easter school holiday break.  My son in law also helped me finish the potting table that came flat packed.  I was half way through building it when they came and now it is in the garage and already being used.

    Hope you have had a good week.  Would have been my Dad's 99th birthday today so many happy memories to recall  Hope you were able to spend time with your sister as planned.  I do not have siblings but it must be good to have someone to share memories of your parents with.

    Take care and stay safe.  BEst regards Jules x

  • Hi Jules,the weather has improved here as well the awful winds have gone at least for the time being been quite nice here today with some sunshine a bit cold but at least it's dry it has forecast a few nice days  so will have to see if it's true lol .I have a little pond in my garden my son did it years ago when he was at school I have four fish one was born in the pond it must be 20 years old now and I have got 2 babies as well we used to have frogs as well but they have disappeared over the years it is nice to watch them swimming about .I didn't go the crem with my sister she changed her mind so went on my own took some bird food  and made myself a flask of coffee sat on a bench with my coffee it was lovely just sat there listening to the birds went in the office and looked at the verse we put in for my mum . it's my daughter's birthday Friday think there spending Monday in a spar hotel then there going abroad for three days not sure where there going will have to ask her this week ,I'm at the community centre Monday it's soup and a sandwich bingo and a raffle again that month has passed so quickly time flies can't believe it was a month ago when we had the first one I might win this time fingers crossed , not out Sunday were doing our own this week hope to take George out  has I haven't had him out much this week because of the weather , have a lovely week regards Syl x

  • Hi Syl,

    Not a bad week here though a couple of rainy days, it is now sunny but chilly.  Had to once again thaw out the birds watering holes and my new barrel pond!  I do love having the little water areas though no fogs again so far.  I am sure you enjoy your pond which is truly established after all this time.

    I have had a temporary fence erected to enclose the back of the garden again and this will do until my workman can get the new fencing supplies and come back when his work shifts allow (Fencing is his sideline and a recommendation from a near neighbour so very handy).  Two foxes have continued to visit throughout the changes during darkness with one looking as though she could be expecting so we will see what the future brings for them.

    I have started my Spring garden project which is developing the bare flower bed next to the renovated garage.  Completely dug over (tiring!!) and now home to a miniature willow and a new shrub rose called Elizabeth which has been developed  to coincide with the Queen's Jubilee,  Wildflower seeding will follow.  The birds have begun collecting nesting material and flying off with it which is lovely to see from the comfort of the armchair. There is currently a robin, blue and great *** feeding in  my caged ground feeder whilst the sparrows, dunnock and starlings are making short work of the suet balls and feeders.  Off to the new garden centre to stock up of peanut kibble/nuts later once my gym session is over.  Only 3degs here so will need to put on an extra layer,

    Hope your daughter enjoyed her birthday wherever she ended up spending it.  Did you win at Bingo or the raffle at your Community centre yesterday?

    My daughter and to grandsons are popping down for a few hours on Saturday.  She was at her allotments at the weekend and the 'hut' where she helps out had their bulbs available at good prices so she has got some on my  behalf though I am a long distance member ha ha!  She is desperately waiting for better weather so more preparation can be got under way.  Nearly all their veggies came from her two allotments last year and she loves 'relaxing' there whilst my son in law and the boys take their remote control cars to racing events on most Sundays.

    My son and family and busy working/at school and now have their house on the market so lots going on for them.  We hope to be able to catch up before Easter but spend time WhatsApp-ing in the meantime.

    Walking with friends later in the week so life feels ok at the moment.

    Take care of yourself. Regards Jules.xx

     

  • Hi Jules, sounds as if you have had a busy week visiting friends and  doing things in the garden hope you have your fencing sorted  when you're  workmen are free to do it the weather hasn't been to bad here at the moment but we're still getting quite a bit  of wind which makes it feel cold ,glad your still getting foxes in your garden ,I'm looking out for the hedgehog s that come into mine but haven't spotted them yet . sounds as if you have some lovely birds in you garden I only get pigeons doves sparrows and starlings I used to get blue *** but they don't come now I do get a squirrel now and again he does bury food in my garden  to eat when there is nothing in the bird feeder .I went the community centre with my friends none of us won this week but the soup and sandwiches were lovely for afters we had a jam and cream scone which one of the ladies that go to the centre made they were yummy .must be nice for your daughter to have a allotment it is supposed to be very relaxing and good for you mental health as well ,how come she is moving ? .my daughter went to Copenhagen for a few days for her birthday she comes home Saturday tea time , Saturday I'm dog sitting for my son as he is going Manchester for a meal as it's his friends birthday so will be at his from dinner time till about nine .I'm still having trouble with the pain in my leg might ring the doctor Monday as it doesn't seem to be getting any better . enjoy your week  regards Syl x

  • Hi Syl,

    Hope your week is going well.  Glad you had a nice time with your friends at theCommunity Centre. Just meeting up and nice food makes you feel better even if there were no winnings to bring home this time. Did you see your doc re your continued leg pain? must be frustrating.

    My daughter loves the allotments (she has two now) and sometimes the boys and her husband help when she needs it.  It is not my daughter who is moving but my son and family.  They want to move a little further out (more for your money too) and the schools are a major consideration.  My daughter in law is hybrid working now (some in the office, sometimes at home).  The area they are looking at will add 20mins onto the commute but will give them more space and a bigger garden if they find what they are after.

    Hope your daughter enjoyed Copenhagen (not somewhere I have been but should think a nice city break for the birthday celebrations).  I have just paid the final balance for this year's holiday (4th time booking carried over since June 2020!!).  Still wondering if it will go ahead so just have to wait and see.  Hope your dog sitting went well for your son too.

    Had a lovely day out to Kew Gardens yesterday and had a picnic lunch overlooking the Thames.  The weather was so good.  All change today as it is pouring with rain and looks set to stay a while so indoors catching up on e-mails and trying to make plans for the next few days when sunshine is supposed to return. I have a friend who has just taken her Dad back home to Wales after staying with them since just before Christmas so she will be free to come on a full day out rather than a snatched up of coffee here and there.

    Take care of  yourself, best regards  Julesx

     

  • Hi Jules, just had a coffee with my friend lovely day here had George out this morning it has forecast sun here all week not that I'm going anywhere to enjoy it ,I managed to mow my front lawn this week it looks a lot better even though it's mostly Moss and not grass lol .my daughter enjoyed her city break even though it was quite expensive ,the weather was cold but they did have some sun which was nice the took scarfs and gloves which came in handy ,hope your son finds somewhere nice  and spacious to buy I live in a Cresent it's not often house's come up for sale but there soon snapped up when they do .hope your holiday goes to plan this year can't see why it shouldn't where are you going ? not sure what is happening this year with me my friend that I usually go with booked a holiday without telling me which I thought was a bit mean .my dog sitting went well she was fine no trouble at all he was home for 9 0 clock, I'm sure I will be asked again in the future now he knows it went well. glad you enjoyed your day out at Kew gardens it does look nice when you see it on the TV. don't think I'm doing anything at the weekend up to now I know my son his taking his dog  for a play morning tomorrow Saturday so I might go along and watch the dogs having fun , I rang the doctor about my pain in my leg I was diagnosed with sciatica a couple of years ago she just said carry on with the cream and she has give me tablets for my joints ,I'm not happy about itwill see if they do any good I don't know about you Jules but we can't even see our doctor s they do everything over the phone I don't know how that can be good when they don't see you in person ,I've had my moan now lol have a lovely week regards Syl x

  • Hi Syl

    So far the weather has been wonderful this week so lots of nice walks and went into London to walk several of the parks yesterday.  Today has been lazier and spent time sitting in the garden with a book after I had planted some bulbs.  Back lawn has had it's first mow and having bought some live mealworms the robins are arriving each morning now for early breakfast ha ha.  My son, daughter in law and the two little ones all tested positive for Covid on Monday and have heavy cold and nasty coughs and of course now isolating so no nice Mother's Day for Jaye by the looks of things bless them.  They have accepted an offer on their house and had their offer for the one they wish to purchased accepted too so just hope all goes according to plan.  There is a little bit of a chain so they will all be depending on each other but very excited for them as if all goes well will definitely increase the space both within the house and a much bigger garden which is exactly what they were after.  My daughter has passed more courses and has now received her certificates up to Level 3 (towards her teaching assistant and special needs plans.  

    My holiday is to Italy(based in Lake Como but with an excursion on the Benina Express to St Moritz and a couple of other tours (fourth re-booking lucky perhaps) . It will all depend on whether the holiday company run the tour (if enough people want to go!). Not until June so just wait and see.

    Glad your daughter enjoyed her trip.  Sorry you are still being troubled by leg pain and hope the cream  soon helps.  I have luckily only  had to contact the GP surgery once since the first lockdown and was happy to speak with the doctor and get a prescription as did not fancy visiting the surgery  though appointments are being made if necessary for a proper examination.  There are four different docs within our surgery plus practice nurses and community welfare so they pretty much cover everything apart from Covid vaccinations.    I have had my flu jabs there in the past two years but these we done outside under gazebo's  so very well organised.  At some point I do need to make an eye test appointment but there has not been any problem with going to the optician - I just need to fit it in.  At the gym tomorrow, out in London on Friday with a friend and out to Lunch on Saturday with another friend.  A few plans for net week too so nice being busy.    Will soon be off up to Milton Keynes to visit my daughter again proviiding we are all well.  I need to shop for their little Easter gifts and they go on holiday during the school hols so wont see them over the Easter weekend.

    Take are and hope the good weather means more walks with George.

    Best regards.  Jules x

  • Hi Jules, glad your enjoying the lovely sunshine I am as well it feels more like summer than spring hope all this lovely sunshine now doesn't mean it's going to be a wet Easter glad you enjoyed your trips to London ,hope your family are ok now and got over COVID ,my neibours have all had it as well they have all had bad colds but are a lot better now it is creeping up again where I live so we still have to be careful I still where my mask when I'm on the bus or in the super market .glad your son has found a house that  suits them it is stressful  buying and selling  property but once there settled it will be nice for them,I went into town this morning Friday wanted to get some flowers for the crem for mother's Day and a few bits as well will go the crem in the morning as I'm going out for dinner with the kids in the afternoon  it's a local pub but it's very up market  and they do a lovely steak .on Monday I'm at spec savers I have a hearing test then I'm back on Thursday for a eye test should take my bed so I don't need to come home lol  I'm on tablets now for my joints they don't seem as bad and my sciatica doesn't seem as bad it's so good not to have that awful pain just hope it carries on ,I'm at a garden centre tomorrow with my daughter it's called dobbies near Liverpool  airport we have been a few times it's a nice garden centre with a nice cafe no doubt we will have a coffee and something to eat  have a lovely week regards Syl x