Sylvia

My husband died 9 wk ago  my kids are very good  but life isnt the same  now i miss him so much  i just wish he could come back  and let me know he is ok 

Parents
  • Hi Sylvia

    I lost my husband in March so I knowo what you are going through.  Unfortunately I have no children so I'm all alone at night and its so depressing.  I was trying to move near to my family and due to a terrible survey on my property thats all fallen through.  I really didn't want to be here in the Winter. 

    I begged my husband to give me a sign yesterday but nothing! I wish he could just let me know he's ok.

    Keep thinking about all your good times, talk to him, I talk to Dave all the time.  I even tell him to get into bed at night and turn the pillow lengthways. When you wake it looks like he's in bed with me.

    Be strong we will all get there.  We will never forget them but I'm told it will get easier as the months/years pass

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  • Hi Sylvia

    I lost my husband in March so I knowo what you are going through.  Unfortunately I have no children so I'm all alone at night and its so depressing.  I was trying to move near to my family and due to a terrible survey on my property thats all fallen through.  I really didn't want to be here in the Winter. 

    I begged my husband to give me a sign yesterday but nothing! I wish he could just let me know he's ok.

    Keep thinking about all your good times, talk to him, I talk to Dave all the time.  I even tell him to get into bed at night and turn the pillow lengthways. When you wake it looks like he's in bed with me.

    Be strong we will all get there.  We will never forget them but I'm told it will get easier as the months/years pass

Children
  • Hi ,Debolina ,sorry to hear of your loss it's nearly  2 years and 6 month since I lost my hubby it's still hard to carry on  I don't think you ever get over it.but you have to carry on  for there sake .I find keeping busy helps  and going out even if you don't feel like it  can help as well take care sylvia