lost my gran to cancer 7month ago and my grandad last month

I feel i cant go a day without getting upset. I was their favorite grandchild we went on holliday almost every weekend to blackpool and they would spoil me, take mw to the fair, the beach and breakfast in the morning. Then bingo at night :) i just wish i could bring them back, ive never felt such pain especially watching my grandad get depressed and suffer without my grandma to the point he became ill and cancer took him away, i just wish i could be happy again. I know im doing them proud i really know i am but i want them to hold me just one more time, let myself be ready :(

  • Hi ymmas

    Our condolences on the loss of your grandparents. To lose them both within a year must be very upsetting.

    It sounds from your post as though you were very close and enjoyed some lovely times together.

    We have some information here on coping with grief. I hope it will be helpful to you.

    There are others here who are also coming to terms with the loss of loved ones. They will understand how you are feeling now.

    I hope that you will be able to find support here and that you will come to share your feelings whenever you find it useful.

    Best wishes

    Jane