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Danny bow 86
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My mom was my world, best friend and of course my mom, she passed away in March and i still don't think it's real?? I have regrets about not  being a better son because she put up with a lot, i know I'm not the only one in this situation just got nobody who knows what it feels like In my circle of pals, x

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    Hi Danny,

    I know how you feel. Mum died end of Sept from cancer. Doc said only move abit. So I was not ready. ( when would you be any way?)

    i've just woke up and it's well quiet ,as I've only just come back to mum's home. Mum was the life  of the house.

    I suppose Christmas didn't help you. Didn't help me not watching mum opening her gifts. Mum was Christmas.

    I wish there was something I could say to help

     

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    Hi Danny

    My mum is dying as we speak she has been battling with cancer for 2 years i just seem to be losing it dont know how i am going to cope when the day comes life as i know it will neve be the same

     

    Mick D

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    Hi Mick, I'm sorry to hear about your mum it's awful my mum has been told she has days it hurts so much I don't know how I will cope too. Sending you hugs and thinking of you xxxx

     

     

     

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    So sorry for the loss of your mothers, I lost my Dad 4 weeks ago and the house is so quiet and strange without him. I hurts so back, I wish I could go back in time and make sure the cancer was spotted earlier so he would have had a better chance!

    Mick and Tilly, so sorry I remember when the docs were telling me Dad had only days but I was in denial, couldn't and wouldn't believe it as only a few weeks previously he was the picture of health. Just be there for your Mum, hold her and tell her how much you love her. Let her say whatever she needs to say, I regret telling my Dad not to say this or that and telling him to remain positive, guess I just didn't want to face the truth.

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