Hi I lost my husband of forty years at the start of the New Year.   he had been in hospital for only three weeks before he died  he was active up until the week before he was admitted to hospital with kidney fail failure caused by cancer growth in his urinary track    We knew nothing at about any cancer prior to him being admitted to hospital  it has shocked me yo the core  he was a happy healthy man or do we thought  no obvious symptoms  although no diagnosis it looks as if it was prostatic  a rare case I was told  It makes no difference rare or not it was too late for any treatment  i was with him right up until the end  he fought death all the way but he lost in the end   I am absolutely devastated  I know how you feel I truly do  like you I am trying to come to terms with my loss  

Hi I lost my husband of forty years at the start of the New Year.   he had been in hospital for only three weeks before he died  he was active up until the week before he was admitted to hospital with kidney fail failure caused by cancer growth in his urinary track    We knew nothing at about any cancer prior to him being admitted to hospital  it has shocked me yo the core  he was a happy healthy man or do we thought  no obvious symptoms  although no diagnosis it looks as if it was prostatic  a rare case I was told  It makes no difference rare or not it was too late for any treatment  i was with him right up until the end  he fought death all the way but he lost in the end   I am absolutely devastated  I know how you feel I truly do  like you I am trying to come to terms with my loss  

Willan,

I am so sorry for your loss, it really is so hard, my husband was diagnosed in 2013 with terminal prostate cancer he passed away 29th Octber, we thought he had a good few more months, but sadly he fell down the stairs and had a bad head injury and whilst in hospital over nine days they said the cancer spread to his lungs and then he got Pneumonia so it was such a shock.  Thank you for your reply

Debbiexxxx