dear supergirl  i lost my mum to ovarian cancer last december , she only lasted three weeks in hospital, she was already in remission from breast cancer in 2011, life sometimes can be cruel, ovarian cancer is a silent killer as you do not get any symtoms untill it advances, we did not know mum had it till it was to late, i am glad i spent the last four years with going out with mum,every week ,thats all you can focus on now spending as much time with your mum as much a s possible and hope for better news soon, seven months on i still finding it hard to cope without out her but at the same time i must be greatfull mum lived till seventy four years old before this horrible cancer took her,i know alot of people die much younger with the same cancer mum had, which is not fair, for me a cure for cancer is still a long way of it does not matter how much money we are pumping in as we do not seem to be getting any where, the advert which says one day we will beat cancer seems to be dragging on for years, i know it is a bit harsh saying that but they is too many people dying from cancer and something needs to be done quickly, treatment such as surgery and chemo only keep it at bay untill it comes back. take care oggi

Hi so sorry to hear about your mum . I lost my mum 15 month ago to bone cancer .Unfortunately  the is no easy way I looked after my mum every day for 8 months for the last 6  weeks of her life she had no quality of life to see and watch your mum suffer is Hart french in . People say are you prepared knowing mum won't b here for long I knew all this but how an earth  do u get prepared for something so bad as this its a life changing thing I know I will never be the sane again. I really feel for you many a time iv wanted to end my life but I have a daughter and wouldn't want her to go through wot I'm going through my mum fought cancer for 20 years and she was only 64 years young. You will just fine your own way eventually. ..xx