I've lost my sister

I lost my 38 year old sister to secondary breast cancer on 16th June after a two and half year battle leaving three girls aged 12, 8 and 6. How can me, mum and dad ever get over this. We have been with her every step of the way but cannot accept it. 

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    Hi Alyson74

    Sorry to hear about the loss of your sister, such heartbreaking news. 

    In terms of getting over it, I guess you never fully will, but that doesn't mean it won't get easier. It's very hard to deal with, I lost a friend a year ago, it's awful, but just think about all the lovely memories you shared together, she wouldn't want you not to get over it, which is easier said than done I know. It takes time but you'll manage I'm sure, as hard as it will be. Good days and bad days. 

    I'm currently in such a strange and outrageous place myself at the moment with my health, I have no idea what's happening to me, but I think too much of how everyone else will feel. 

    Have strength, you'll pull through it, just takes time! 

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    Hi Alyson74

    Sorry to hear about the loss of your sister, such heartbreaking news. 

    In terms of getting over it, I guess you never fully will, but that doesn't mean it won't get easier. It's very hard to deal with, I lost a friend a year ago, it's awful, but just think about all the lovely memories you shared together, she wouldn't want you not to get over it, which is easier said than done I know. It takes time but you'll manage I'm sure, as hard as it will be. Good days and bad days. 

    I'm currently in such a strange and outrageous place myself at the moment with my health, I have no idea what's happening to me, but I think too much of how everyone else will feel. 

    Have strength, you'll pull through it, just takes time! 

    X

     

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