i have just lost my sister to an aggressive brain tumour......we had her funeral yesterdy. she was 45. she was diagnosed just ten months. all of her four best friends, her 21yr old daughter....myself we nursed her at home for the last five weeks, she was unable to walk or talk. its been harrowing, but the strength that my sister had, her calmness and true bravery throughout. having lost her independance, lost access to her whole life, her work....driving her car......living, months ago. everyone involved with her nursing, tenderly caring for her evey need, night and day, the strength that people find is humbling to witness, selflessness, generosity of spirit. whatever you are going through..........drawer strength from one another, keep the hope of a full recovery always........if hope is lost.......sharing the last months, weeks and days, hours together, is a very special tīme.......you will all get through it, you will be stronger for your experience, no matter how difficult at the time, family members and survivors of cancer. if i can help anyone with queries, worries, fears.......lovebto hear from you xx
