Not sure if im on the right web site or not , but reading the posts people have sent breaks my heart , but in away helps, 

Ive been looking after  full time , my parents , both with dementia , mum vascular  , dad mixed,    i work full time, have carers come in from when im at work, Dad had perminant catherter and bowel incontinent   soo got to  stage i was more anxious   ,  i got help took time off work ,  and cared for my parents full time,   and obvs theres more going off , not just there personal care ,  but keeping thier home n garden uo to par type thing ,  thank goodness for my younger brother  absolute angel   anyway  , Dad went through alot   went into hospital  again blah blah , but enough is enougn , he wanted to come back home, it was arranged  carers  me my brother 24 hr care , for his 92nd birthday, 

Mum  didnt and still doesnt understand 

We got Dad home ,   my niece came  over to give me a break she said go get fresh air  

i said to Dad  who was now on the meds stuff , im going for tea bags back in 5 

wasnt gone 2 minutes , she phoned me come back

hed gone