Ligee, I am so sorry to hear about your sister. You have my sincerest and most heartfelt condolences for your loss.
I know nothing I say can take away the pain, but I really do hope you can take some comfort from knowing that we are here for you and help you feel slightly less alone with your grief.
Our thoughts are with you Ligee, and we are sending you all our strength and support at this extremely difficult time.
Hiya, my sis went to see her gp in February with a "lump" in her abdomen, her gp said it was an age related lump! Fast forward to April for a ultrasound scan which didn't show anything clearly...further test was a CT scan which showed a mass...admitted to hospital then an mri showed liver and lungs and bowel tumours...Did a camera procedure and said no cancer in bowel, just diverticulitis and a polup, then oral camera showed stomach cancer.. happened so fast. My sister loved Christmas and died Christmas day. We are all devastated, The hospital has a lot to answer to, mis-diagnosed for months..life will never be the same again. we are a broken family
It sounds as if you've had a very hard year. Some cancers do not show up well on certain scans. Mammogram and ultrasound missed both of my cancers and I found them myself. I do hope that as a family, you can support one another through your grief. It is still early days - give yourselves time to come to terms with your loss - nothing happens quickly in grief.
