Hi Scotte29 and welcome to the Cancer Chat community.
I'm sorry for your loss Scottie and to hear how difficult things have been for you and your mum since your dad passed away.
If you can, try and encourage your mum to talk to her GP. I know there's a chance she might say no, and if that is the case then it would be best for you to contact the GP on your mum's behalf and explain your concerns. You can also reach out to bereavement charities such as Cruse Bereavement Support and Sue Ryder for further support as they will be able to advise you on the best way you can support your mum at this time.
There is no timescale when it comes to grief and for some people it can take a lot longer, especially when a couple have been together for a long time, but if at any point you feel your mum is at risk of harm then do give the Samaritans a call. They are there to listen, and will help you talk through your concerns. Make sure her GP knows that you are concerned for your mum’s safety as well.
Hopefully some of our members who have been in this position with their loved ones will offer their thoughts and advice to you soon, but in the meantime we're thinking of you Scottie29 and sending all our support your way.
