Hi Trevor losing anyone we love is the worst feeling ever, especially when we've spent a lifetime with them and it is very painful but in a way its a good thing that you are preparing yourself and unlike some people it won't be a total shock as in dying suddenly ,I'm not really sure which is worse to be fair ,I just hope you can make some more memories with your darling wife ,I'm a great believer in I will meet my loved ones who have passed again ,I'm thinking of my Grandparents and Mother and in my heart I know I'll see them again ,anyway Trevor its nice to chat with you and this is a very helpful site with lovely understanding people so it might help you if you occasionally have a question or just for a chat ,so take care of yourselves ,thinking of you ...

Thank you so very much. I understand the bitter sweet benefit of being forewarned.

I greatly appreciate your reply.

Best wishes

Thank you Trevor Best Wishes to you and your wife too ,you are not alone ..

Thank you Trevor Best Wishes to you and your wife too ,you are not alone ..