My wife and I was told on the same day we both had cancer.wow you cannot believe that is a knockout blow.Realy that takes a long time take in Properly. We just went outside under the gazebo and cried like we had cried before. I'm crying know as I write this now. Ok back to the story. My wife's Cancer was stage4 terminal.Mine was going to be cut away part of my lung followed  by chemotherapy. Hopefully that was going to sorte me out. My wife's was terminal she said that she would have the treatment to stay with me as long as she could.It broke my heart like you would not believe. I didn't think I would ever get over this. The lonely ness I felt ripped me apart at night. I just couldn't get her out of head. 

Bobbybear