Loss of my adult son and best friend

Hi I'm sho I have only just lost my boy I was his carer as well as his mum he passed away 5 January 23 he had brain neck and lung cancer I'm struggling without him he wasnt only my boy but best friend it was just the 2 of us for all his 35 years I cared for him right till the end how do u cope wit no one around you for support.All I have ever known for 30 odd years is caring for my son .I hope this is ok to post 

  • Sho. So sorry to hear about your son. It's a mum's worse nightmare to lose a child, no matter what their age, as they are always our child. We would swap with them if we could.

    Take solisis that you gave him love and support right to the end. You did everything you could to make him comfortable at the end. Remember his love for you and yours for him and that he is now at peace.

    Try to focus on the good time. A lose such as this take a long time to get through. You'll have good days and bad. 

    It will never stop hurting but with time your pain will begin to ease. 

    I'm sending a mother's love to you, to try and help mend your broken heart.

    We are a family here and please feel free to use us as a support. 

     

    Xxxx Pauline