I lost both parents I know where you are and how you feel 

it used to take my breath away 

I'd wake up thinking there passing was all a dream 

I still feel lost 

dad 20 years ago 

mum 7 years ago 

I still have difficult times 

I feel your pain 

Yes only people who have been through it. Actually understand the pain. The heart breaking pain and the emptiness.  When people said before they had lost someone . You give sympathy but don't fully understand. Now experiencing loss. I know how they actually felt. 

Yes only people who have been through it. Actually understand the pain. The heart breaking pain and the emptiness.  When people said before they had lost someone . You give sympathy but don't fully understand. Now experiencing loss. I know how they actually felt. 

How do you adjust to this new awful life. minus my dad . Who I miss .. and feel no one else is feeling this as bad as me. Not my brothers...

Exactly I said same thing to friends 

but it is a million times worse when you become a member of that horrible exclusive club when you looses your parent 

talking is a good way of getting through the grief 

rather than keeping it to your self