Hello Midnight caller, I see no one has replied yet so wanted to welcome you to our very understanding friendly forum. I do know how you feel it's a year this month since my husband died, we'd been together for fifty five years and it feels like you've lost a part of your soul. You don't give much information about what has happened and that's your perogative, my husband had lung cancer, five years of treatment and then he was gone. It's a struggle but I try and find one small thing each day to smile about. Today a beautiful Robin red breast has sat two feet from me whilst I fed him seed, my husband loved Robins and always had cards sent to him with Robins on, our grandson made him a clay Robin and yes he's a little broken now but it's the memories that keep me going. I'm sure others will pop by and console you, lots are going through and have been through this so you are not alone. All my good wishes, Carol
Hi Carol, my wife was 45 and was diagnosed with breast cancer 18 months ago. We got Married in August and she passed on Nov 25th 2022. We were soul mates best friends. It is incredibly hard with the day to day. But each day gets a little easier although sometimes I get a rush of guilt sadness because she isnt here and I am. My middle daughter had a Robin fly into the house and sit in the christmas tree, we had already heard that people have encounters with Robins after a passing. She was so uset in a good way so I do understand the relevance Thank you for your kind words. Mark
Hi Mark, that's such a young age and it must have been so hard for you all. My daughters miss their Dad so much but at least they had many more years with him. Yes it does get a little bit easier but she would not want you to feel guilty because you smile, my husband said to live my life to the full after he had gone and I am trying to do that. Always here if you need to talk. Take care, Carol
I totally feel your pain and as you've said, no words can do anything. I'm haunted by the loss of my Kay and I still can't come to terms with the fact that she's gone even 2 years down the line. Here if you need to chat anyway x
