Abusive partner

I don't know if I should even post this here but nobody else will understand. My mum died on 29 May from cancer, after 6 months since being diagnosed. My kids dad and I have drama all the time, and are on and off. Recently in a row he made comments about how he hoped she was rotting in hell, ofcourse I went nuts but he keeps saying he was angry and loved my mum (he barely knew her) I don't feel like this is forgivable.. I would never say that no matter how angry I was.. has anyone else ever experienced this

  • Hi Hannah...

    Oh my ... it's still raw pain and I think you need to concentrate on you ...  it sounds like you were on a rocky road before all this .. in this day and age we don't have to take verbal or physical abuse ... 

    Maybe you could reach out for councilling... and just think outside the box ... maybe he is hurting to .. sometimes when we hurt bad, it's hard to see others pain ... 

    But loosing those we love makes us realise how short life is, and changing how we look at the future .. I hope you get some answers soon.... Chrissie....