Mum dying

My mum was told last week she had inoperable stage four cancer. Basically palliative care is all now.

 

I have covid, I want to spend this time with her. 
 

she is ok but weak, hopefully they will give her a transfusion. Have no idea how long she has. Keep thinking of life without her. 
she doesn't deserve this along with all the others suffering.

gamily pressuring her to have biopsy, where medical team have said it's up to her, but won't change anything. She doesn't want it.

it's hard knowing there's nothing that can be done. Feel so helpless.

 

 

Parents
  • Hello, you are stronger than you know, you aren't hopeless you can be there when it's safe to do so, I am not sure on your arrangements for palliative care but if it's a home arrangement maybe ask her wishes reguarding seeing you with a virus. Life can be tragically hard sometimes and there aren't always words to describe how you think and feel but be easy on yourself too

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  • Hello, you are stronger than you know, you aren't hopeless you can be there when it's safe to do so, I am not sure on your arrangements for palliative care but if it's a home arrangement maybe ask her wishes reguarding seeing you with a virus. Life can be tragically hard sometimes and there aren't always words to describe how you think and feel but be easy on yourself too

Children