Hiya.  There is a book you can get from Amazon called: 'Teen Grief:  Caring For The Grieving Teenage Heart'  by Gary Roe.  Hope you find it helpful, Violet.

Hi again.  Here's another book, also available from Amazon that might help you:  'Helping Teens Cope With Death'  by Dougy Center For Grieving Children.  Take care, Violet.