Lost my dad to lung cancer. Newbie

Hi.i recently lost my amazing Dad to lung cancer.i am trying to get my head around my dad passing away.my dad was diagnosed with lung cancer that had spread . However, only found out it was lung cancer the day before he passed away. My dad was in hospital for almost 3 weeks  which was for something else  ( he did have a chest infection) .things seemed ok and we were hoping to have him home.At this point we as a family didn't even know he had cancer. Im trying to understand why the hospital didn't pick up on him having cancer. Im trying to understand why he died a day later we found out he had lung cancer. he ened up with a collapsed lung and pneumonia as well as the cancer. My heart is broken ive lost my dad :( .within that 24 hours of being told he had months to live ..he died with me by his side .we didn't get the time to say so many thing because of the hospital restrictions .no visiting untill his final moments. 

Sorry for my  rambling

  • Hello,

    I'm so very sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. It must have been a terrible shock for you. It sounds like you have many questions about your dad's care. Maybe a conversation with the hospital team who cared for your Dad will help to answer?

    I'm not sure how long it has been, but I think if you pass in hospital a medical examiner will be in touch to confirm the cause and to check if you have any concerns about your loved ones care. That may also be an opportunity to ask.

    Sending love x