I'm so sorry to hear your husband has passed away Eimhin and on behalf of everyone here at Cancer Chat I would like to offer you our sincerest condolences for your loss.

Coping with grief and coming to terms with the loss of someone you loved and held so dear is very, very, tough but I hope you can take some comfort from knowing that many of our members have also been on this journey, so you are not alone and I'm sure some of them will offer their support, advice and kind words to you soon.

I know Christmas must have been difficult but I really do hope the memories you created will help when times get tough.

Kind regards,

Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad. I agree it's like a dream a bad dream. My husband was diagnosed 4 years ago. He even was sent for HIPE treatment to try and prolong his life. It maybe helped as he got 2 more years. Scarily be had absolutely no symptoms until he suffered an episode of sepsis as the tumour had already broken through the bowel wall. He was the best partner u could wish for. After both coming out of diaster marriages. We were lucky to have each other for 34 years. 

I hope u have the support around you . Like yourself I've no words of wisdom but message any time. M