Hello,

My partner has been diagnosed with cancer. They still don't know exactly what type it is. They think it is likely to be bowel cancer that has spread to the liver and lungs but it could also be cancer of unknown primary. They said we may never know definitevely?! I'm trying to get my head around the best way to support him. He is very poorly already and it seems to be advancing quickly but the doctors don't seem to see any urgency. He was discharged from hospital nearly two weeks ago and we only now have the first appointment with the oncologist NEXT TUESDAY. We are falling apart living in such limbo not knowing what we're facing. I don't understand how they will even attempt to treat it if they don't know exactly what they're dealing with?! Please help in any way you can, I'm losing my mind.