How can I help my husband? He seems to have given up

Since being diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer that has spread to his bones my hubby seems to have given up  especially since the radiotherapy hasn't helped with pain when walking, don't know what to do to help him

  • Hello Devineone and welcome to Cancer Chat.

    I'm sorry to hear that the radiotherapy hasn't been able to help your husband with the pain he has when he walks. It must be very tough to live with and it's completely understandable why he is feeling disheartened at the moment. Hopefully this is only temporary and your husband will be able to find his way back to a more positive frame of mind but if you're concerned this may not be the case, do be sure to keep an eye on him and let his cancer team know as they will be able to help and let you know what you can do to support him at this time.

    I'm sure some of members who have been in this position with their loved ones will offer their support and advice to you soon but if you'd like to have a chat about this with one of our cancer nurses they're available on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m.

    I hope this information I've found on supporting a partner with cancer will prove useful as well.

    Best wishes to you both,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator