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Sister has stage 4 won't have treatment

TrefsMam
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Hello, first time posting. My younger sister is latec30's and her breast cancer has returned, but has now spread all over. The oncologist says it's now terminal. 

She has declined all cancer drugs and is using the herbal Remedies. I've accepted that. That's her choice and I respect that. 

But I live 150 miles away and have kids. How can I support her and where can I find support for me and the kids?

Thank you. 

  • Hello TrefsMam

    I'm sorry to hear that your sister has been given a terminal cancer diagnosis. It's obviously an incredibly difficult time for you all. 

    We have some information on our website about coping with cancer that you may find helpful which includes information about family, friends, and caregivers and some links to children's books that may be helpful (depending on how old your children are). 

    If you'd like to chat with one of our nurses at any point you're most welcome to call them on 0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday 9 am to 5 pm. I'm sure they will be happy to talk things through with you and offer any advice, information, and support that they can. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator 

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