Husband has cancer i have tried to be strong for him but i find myself feeling unloved just a carer his mood swings and attitudes have changed i try to be this strong person but i feel im falling into a deep hole so depressed unable to sleep
Husband has cancer i have tried to be strong for him but i find myself feeling unloved just a carer his mood swings and attitudes have changed i try to be this strong person but i feel im falling into a deep hole so depressed unable to sleep
Hi there ...
So sorry your going through this heartbraking time at the moment.... I've been on both sides of cancer, and I found it was far harder caring for someone ... please understand cancer can make even placid loving people turn angry and fustrated and take it out on those close ...
Saying that, it doesn't ease what your going though ... try to reach out to McMillan or the helpline on here, and look for numbers you can call ... I'm tagging in #the moderators... as they have numbers you can use to get someone to talk to ... but know your not alone ... many on here have been where you are now .. try to keep it in mind its the cancer talking ... and when things get too hard ... get out for a while ... do something for you ... walk in the park ... or have a coffee somewhere ... go shopping ... anything to help you get a little break ...
If you can get someone to give you a break ... do it .. take any help offered ... sending you a vertual hug .. Chrissie x
Hi there ...
So sorry your going through this heartbraking time at the moment.... I've been on both sides of cancer, and I found it was far harder caring for someone ... please understand cancer can make even placid loving people turn angry and fustrated and take it out on those close ...
Saying that, it doesn't ease what your going though ... try to reach out to McMillan or the helpline on here, and look for numbers you can call ... I'm tagging in #the moderators... as they have numbers you can use to get someone to talk to ... but know your not alone ... many on here have been where you are now .. try to keep it in mind its the cancer talking ... and when things get too hard ... get out for a while ... do something for you ... walk in the park ... or have a coffee somewhere ... go shopping ... anything to help you get a little break ...
If you can get someone to give you a break ... do it .. take any help offered ... sending you a vertual hug .. Chrissie x