Hi all

Hubby has NSCLC stage 4 that has met to liver and spleen and more recently his other lung, spine and fluid in abdomen 

He's 18 months from original diagnosis, has had chemo  immunotherapy  more chemo and targeted treatment (which was damaging his liver) so he's been off all treatment since April.

We're normally a happy couple, in our 50s and married 34 years.  But this last week his mood has been very down. He is struggling to eat, breathing is a problem and I'm just not sure what to do.  We saw palliative Dr last week, he has oxygen machine, but we are waiting until 1st September to hear the outcome of the joint Drs review as to next steps

Talking about memories upsets him,  talking about the future ....  well that's hard too, so we dont   talking about our kids and grandson hurts him too.    He doesn't want people to stay over   doesn't want to go out to dinner   struggles chatting due to the cough , so I end up entertaining friends who do pop by, and it's not me they want to spend time with really! 

Oh I don't know what to do or say to help him