My partner had bladder cancer G3/T3 and his bladder removed in March 21. The histology showed one lymph node involved and in July 21 we were told that a PET scan showed cancer in the throat. Diagnosed as bladder cancer. Then a CT and MRI showed not only a 4 cm throat cancer but pelvis, lung and liver. No operation available. He has last week finished 5 days of radiotherapy on throat cancer and started Tecentriq immunotherapy. The pelvic pain is now very bad and a very immature GP told us over speaker phone it will get worse. The pain in the side of his head is less after starting pain meds for nerves. So today we started 1 ml of morphine but it was not enough.
I think this is going downhill very quickly and I'm heartbroken that my sweet man is going through this. I need to know how long he has so I can plan, help him. He lost his voice about 5 weeks ago. Can anyone give me the brutal truth.
