How do I support her?

My wonderful Mam at age 59 has just had a mastectomy. She has been so positive and coped well. There were 2 tumours grade 2 less than 10mm each. All the cancer has gone from the breast but they've told her she now has to have chemo and bone strengthening treatment? How do I support her through this, what can I do. My words just don't feel enough. 

  • Hi sorry to read about your mum.

    I had a lumpectomy in April and am currently going through chemo then radiotherapy. My son and daughter are both married and my daughter lives 2 hours away. 

    Chemo affects everyone differently and some people even manage to continue normal life. It's can be very emotional, draining and scary.  Although I have a positive outlook you can't do it 24/7 so just be guided by your mum. 

    Once she starts chemo use the oncology team for any concerns, side effects as they can advise, prescribe. 

    Best advise tell her to listen to her body I had a session last Friday and know the next few days will be spent mainly in bed. Eating and drinking can be difficult so if she finds 1 or 2 things she can eat then it won't matter as long as she gets something in her.

    If you or your mum have any questions please do ask away I'm happy to help.

    Wishing your mum and you all the best.

    Louise xxx

  • Thank you so much Louise. It's totally floored us. I really appreciate your comments. I think that is her fear those feelings of being poorly after the sessions. Thankfully she lives super close so I can be there where she needs it. 
     

    Wishing you all the very best for your journey. 
    Kerry xx