Coming to terms

Hi 

My husband had advanced stomach cancer he's had radiotherapy and chemotherapy didn't work he is having a stent fitted tomorrow. 

The ongulist is hoping he will be able to start eating build he's strength up then see what treatment we could try.

Coming to terms with things is so difficult.

I really thought and hoped the chemo would have shrunk it but instead it's got bigger.

How do people come to terms with what is going to happen in the future I can't and really don't want to

  • I feel the same I go from crying to trying to pull myself together to crying again feel like life will never be the same so I can relate to how you feel, I can’t offer any useful advise as I am in a mess most days but send you lots of love and hope things get better for you both , stay hopeful ️