Stage 4 bowel cancer

Hi, My husband was diagnosed with bowel cancer in January, he has had part of his colon removed with tumour and 25 lymh nodes. 1 was positive. This has spread to his liver so is classed as stage 4. He is on chemo for 4 months and then an operation to remove the cancer in liver.

I'm very confused about how cancer is staged etc. I know why it's stage 4 but does this also mean it's advanced cancer and or terminal, co sultanys do t say much on this and I don't want to press for answers as it would upset my husband who doesn't ask any questions only accepts what he has been told. Any advise please

 

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  • Hi

    during my bowel cancer I was never told what stage mine was.

    I was affraid to ask some questions as I was scared of what answers I might get.

    I listened to what was to be done and took it one day at a time. 

    I had surgery and then chemo as it had spread to one lymph node, all the others they removed were fine.

    I guess maybe stage 3 but not sure.

    I met people along my journey with a spread to their liver and had seperate chemo for both.

    You just have to leave it to the experts who know what they are doing and every day is one less day to the end of treatment..

    Be strong both of you, you can do tis together x

     

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  • Hi

    during my bowel cancer I was never told what stage mine was.

    I was affraid to ask some questions as I was scared of what answers I might get.

    I listened to what was to be done and took it one day at a time. 

    I had surgery and then chemo as it had spread to one lymph node, all the others they removed were fine.

    I guess maybe stage 3 but not sure.

    I met people along my journey with a spread to their liver and had seperate chemo for both.

    You just have to leave it to the experts who know what they are doing and every day is one less day to the end of treatment..

    Be strong both of you, you can do tis together x

     

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