Last year we found out that my mum 55 years of age was diagnosed with stage 3 gullet and windpipe cancer that was none treatable so sent him with a prognosis of about 3 month I could not get my head around it she still here but over last month it feels like she given up hope stoped all of it I got 2 brothers and a sister that do nothing at all I'm up everyday 2/3 times leaving my own family to make sure she has someone with her they all still live at home but upstairs from coming in from work all I ever here is about them how much they do which is nothing my I add I just feel so disheartened has anyone had anything similar thanks