Hi lovely. Please feel free to message. I lost my dear father to pancreatic cancer 4 years ago.    He was diagnosed and was offered palative care.   From the November he done chemo - through to May.  And from then it was no longer slowing down the progression and had spread to his liver and his lungs.   From end of May he really declined and within the month he was in the hospice.  4 days later he passed peacefully with his family at the young age of 56.             My only advice is please some worry about how long she has left.    I worried so much about when it would happen. And would just do anything to just enjoy the moment.       Everyone is completely different.     I just thought I'd share what had happened in my fathers case.   Xx please message if you need anything x