Staying strong

If you are classed as a high risk and not likely to be cured from lymphoma what does the life expectancy look like? With Covid I'm worried I'll miss out on trying to help my step dad feel comfortable and at ease. Although I'm not the one with the cancer I feel very guilty. While he was in hospital the NHS said they was aiming for a cure and now a month later he is told he is high risk and unlikely to make a full recovery. I just don't understand & I don't know what to say because I don't want to say the wrong thing. I saw him today for the first time in a month because of Covid (was socially distant) and he looked so unwell from the chemo. Had to hold back the tears til after he left. Feel so sad for him and what this means for the family. 
 

would I be elidgable for Covid vaccination to be able to help care & visit? 

  • Hi Jek90,

    Welcome to Cancer Chat. Firstly I'm sorry to hear of what your step dad is currently going through - I can imagine this must be an incredibly difficult situation for you.

    For any medical questions, these should really be discussed with his doctor/specialist as they are the only one who can advise specific to your step dad.

    I hope that as restrictions ease a little, you'll be able to see each other more. It certainly sounds as if you don't have anything to feel guily about - these situations are always really tough for the family and friends and it's easy to feel like you're not doing enough.

    Regarding the vaccine, I believe those in priority group six include those who are the sole or primary carer of a vulnerable individual. To be sure and to discuss this further, it may help to talk it through with one of our nurses. If you'd like to do this then you can reach them on 0808 800 4040 - Monday-Friday, 9-5.

    Wishing you all the best,

    Ben
    Cancer Chat Moderator