Heya... I'm not going threw the similar thing which ur husband and u are going threw... but my dad has terminal prostate cancer... which has spread to his lungs etc and its upsetting for me... so can relate to what ur going threw.... sorry u nd ur husband is going threw a difficult time.. right now... although I don't have the words to make u feel better.... but hope this helps a little bit... u aren't alone im here if u need to talk.... just private message me if u want up.to u.... sending prayers and love ur way to u nd ur husband.... stay strong xxxx