Hi , here I am back again after just over 7 years , I was diagnosed with breast cancer stage 3 gone to lymph may 2013 , anyway to cut a long story short , surgery , chemo and Rads and I'm still here . However just after this my partner and best friend, soulmate was them diagnosed with ampullary /pancreatic ca , after a massive surgery , chemo and rads we were told sept 2019 it was back . 
I fell apart , he didn't but recently he is having the most terrible anxiety attacks ( his cancer is there at the original site , growing and his tumour markers are increasing every blood test ) but so far they can't see it anywhere else . ( however the onc has recently told us no one survives over 2 years at his stage , Thankyou onc !!! I'm a nurse so I don't know where to turn ) anyway any suggestions with how to right now help him .?? He's contacted gp so on antidepressants which she has assured him will help anxiety within 14 days . But he is a wreck and my heart is breaking , he's 56 and is the kindest man I have ever met , my best friend a beautiful human being . I can't cope anyone we have dealt with cancer since 2013 I'm sick of it plus a close friend 45 died last Thursday from cancer xx how can I help him I've  tried so hard ?