I don't think there are any words to describe how I'm feeling right now, bar numb. As a family we've heard that my mum has stage 4 pancreatic cancer. There are no curative options on the table and without us present, she's been told that she may have less than 3 months. 

None of us have been sleeping and I'm absolutely terrified. 

Do you have any advice for staying strong and keeping a family members motivated? Or just anything we can do or say to have a semblance of control?