My brother's daughter not giving us any info. He's terminal

Hi my brother is terminal  and has had the drive fitted ,but we are not getting any proper  information  from the woman calling herself his daughter and next of kin , first they said we could see him any time day or night to not going so often to keep it like hospital  visits ,but her siblings  and relatives  are there constantly,  we get no alone  time with my brother , she doesn't  tell us what the Macmillan  nurses are saying  when they come ,they  have completely  took charge he has only been in their  lives for 7 years, no relation  what so ever , he always said he wants to be scared st sea now she has talked him into going in with her mother whom he dated briefly  my heart is totally  broken 

  • Hi there ..

    What a sad sad situation ... but must remember we are only getting to hear your side ...  the trouble is this happens so often... and sadly don't know how you can resolve it ... did he give her a power of aterny . ... if not, I would find out your legal rights ... have you had regular contact in those 7 years ... maybe she thinks you could be there now because of inheritance ... I'm just guessing there ... the driver could mean he has not got long so I hope with all my heart you can all come to some agreement...

    But either way my heart goes out to you and hope you get to say good bye and make your piece ... I'm so so glad when my mum and dad died and sister recently we all pulled together as a family with no cross words ... but I do realise we are very fortunate ... Chrissie.....