Devastated

My husband has advanced stomach cancer only found out by letter that it is incurable I was hoping that after radiotherapy and chemotherapy it would shrink and be removed. I am really scared I don't know what happens now does the treatment prolong he's life ? Does it stop the pain? My husband doesn't really want to talk about it he doesn't want to hurt me I feel lost and confused as I can't talk to ongulist. Has anybody else been in the same position?

 

  • Hi there, I'm so sorry to hear about your husband. This is a problem I've been trying to get my head round with my Nanas treatment she's got stage 4 terminal lung cancer and I'm trying to figure out what the point in treatment for my nan is when they've said it won't cure her. In regards to talking about it I found this hard at first with my nana and I found writing letters explaining my feeling about everything was a lot easier than talking about it not sure if this will help. I hope you get all the answers you need sorry if this isn't any help x

  • Thankyou for replying I'm so sorry about your nana I think that is a really good idea about writhing it down thankyou take care x