Hi didn't really know how to start this, my husband had stomach cancer  . He had to have his stomach removed this was in 2018, in April in this year he started getting a lot of pain in his side. Without going into it all he had a MRI scan which has showed something. He has just had a pet scan. We are now awaiting to see his consultant on 14th of this month, it's a worrying time for us both. I am trying to do all I can for him, but he's being really nasty to me, I can't do anything right . He gets so stressed and I do understand totally.  I just need some help to cope with the way he treats me. I am walking on egg shells all the time, I just want to help him all I can in every way.  Feel I am making this about me but I don't know how to deal with him being like this, I can and will do what ever I can to help him. 

Guess I just need someone to give my advise please.