My beautiful nan has been given 2 months!?

So on June the 9th the most amazing woman ever in the world was diagnosed with overian cancer and pulmonary embolisms. From that date we waited about 7 weeks before she had her full hysterectomy and Honestly in that’s period she deteriorated so quickly it was horrible to see. However the surgery was deemed a success and she came home after a week. She was making good progress for about 2 or 3 weeks she was walking around where she couldn’t before at all, moving more freely and we were so proud. She had a doc come over as her heart was beating to fast but then I calmed her down. About 12 days ago she had bad diahhorea and was taken to hospital she needed a blood transfusion which she had. She then had an infection for which she was treated by antibiotics and then her oxygen levels dropped and now we’ve been told she has 2 months!?!? I’m so shocked. She was meant to start chemotherapy to get rid of what remains in her liver and now this. My family only consists of 3 people I can’t lose my best mate. There has so be SOMETHING I can do please help me what institution/committee or doctors can I contact I CANNOT give up!!!! Please help me (based in East Midlands Kettering)

  • Hi there...

    So so sorry your going through this heartbraking time at the moment... it's one of the hardest things we go through in life...

    Well I'm a nan with cancer to ... and you know any of us could be given months at any time ... sometimes it's about knowing when to stop and make the most of the time we have, weather it's a day /week/ year .. we all have to go sometime ... it's just how things are .. but me, I'm making the most of the whatever time I have ... I'm making each day a memory day... I laugh , and play with the grand kids... 

    Maybe it's time for you to make each day you have with her, a memory day ... share tears , chat .. ask her about her life, I bet there's lots you don't know... watch a film .. leave nothing unsaid ... now is the time to hold her hand ... walk this last few months with her ... and remember we never loose those we love... they stay tucked up in our hearts .. you can take her with you on your journey through life.... 

    It's going to be hard, but you'll be pleased you did ... you were blessed with a lovely nan ... many never know that love ... so try and live in the day ... then it's not so overwhelming... you can do this, one day at a time ...  sending you a vertual hug.... Chrissie x