Hi Everyone, 

My boyfriend who was my fiancé whom I’ve known since April 2019 was diagnosed with stage 4 malignant melanoma in his osophegus . He has been on two different immunotherapies and one if the cancers has continued  to grow. He’s also been on steroids but the screaming and shouting and manipulative behaviour started shortly before he was diagnosed. I have had an extremely complicated time before I met him with jobs and losing my home so I became a bit dependent on him financially . He has had bad news today from the hospital his lump is growing and the only thing left is radiotherapy or a clinic trial if there is one . He is very upset and so am I but I find it hard to feel when he is so awful to me. He changes daily. I have very bad fibromyalgia and have been in a lot of pain myself. Any advice would be good. 

Thank you you so much

Louise