Low Grade Ovarian Cancer Spread Everywhere.

Hi everyone. 
My mum was diagnosed with ovarian cancer just over 2 years ago. It was stage 4 and pretty much everywhere in her body. she had chemo on its own, then chemo with avastin, then surgery and now tablets. The tablets were working great for the last 6 months. Levels were dropping and she felt great. Suddenly she had a lot of pain and went for a scan where the showed that the cancer had spread to every organ that she had left. They're keeping her on the tablets until they run out and then taking her off with no other options. 
she doesn't ask about life expectancy but it's something i worry about and want to be prepared for. Am I looking at weeks? Months? Anyone else been through something similar with a family member who can shed some light.? She's ok through the day although she gets tired but the pain is really bad for her at night. The morphine doesn't even touch it. I'm also terrified of telling my little boys. They're so innocent and pure and both love her to pieces and have no idea she's ill. Both boys under 8. Have no idea what to do :( 

  • Hello Polly73 and a warm welcome to our forum! 

    I am sorry to hear about your mum's diagnosis and that the cancer has spread. It's very sad to hear that she is running out of options and that they will be taking her off her tablets. We have information on ovarian cancer on this page including a section on survival statistics here but to answer your question it is really difficult to know what her life expectancy might be. Perhaps you could talk to her consultant and they may be able to give you a little more guidance on this. You could also mention that she is in terrible pain at night and that the morphine doesn't seem to be helping. They may have some painkiller advice for you. 

    Talking to children about cancer can be a bit of a daunting prospect and we have useful information to help you find the right words here. I hope it will give you some helpful tips to help you broach the subject with your little ones.

    Hopefully others who have been in a similar situation will come and share their experience with you. We're all here for you anytime you need to talk to others who understand what you and your mum are going through at the moment. 

    Best wishes, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator