my dad had an operation. It was carcenoma in the private area, apparently rare. He went through with the operation to have the tumor removed. He has had no further treatment. Constant calls from hospital that he avoids. He says he doesn't want to know. Has just received letter for ct thorax abdo pelvis with contrast.
Whenever my mum trys to get information from him he shuts down or gets angry and refuses to tell us what he knows. All he has said is all ok from initial operation and that he is to old for anything else. We try to reason saying at least find out. For us. If you refuse further treatment we will respect his wishes. He is still shut down and avoiding calls or cancelling appointments. Anyone have any idea what we can do?
