Hello Chalky75,

Welcome to Cancer Chat. I'm sorry to hear about your partner but, as you say, you can't go though treatment without being changed in some way. There is some advice on caring for someone with cancer here, as well as the "Cancer and Emotions" sections, which I hope will help you understand more about the changes in mood that he may be going through. I'm sure you've been amazing in supporting him so far so keep communicating and look after yourself as well.

Take care,

Moderator Anastasia

Hi Chalky

            I'm 6 months post chemotherapy after 7 months of treatment  for non hogkins lymphoma. There are some good support groups out there I'm told not that I've found one yet due to covid and I think this verys from place to place plymouth is shocking .   I can relate to how your husband is feeling  I'm fighting the very same problem myself I cant explain how I feel to anyone as I don't know myself . It changes you in ways you just can put your finger on I get everyone is different but we all seem to experience the same effects. I've started to meditate this has helped a far bit when I can be bothered to do it if I'm honest .

Pete