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Bmadgwick
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Hello,

My nan has recently been diagnosed with lung cancer that had spread to the liver and her bones. I've not long ago lost my uncle to lung cancer and now this. 

These are my first experiences with cancer no one has been ill before now.

I'm struggling to process this! It doesn't feel real. I have so many memories with her.

I know she isn't gone yet but part of me feels like she is.

 

Anyone have any tips on how to cope with this I know everyone is different. 

  • Hi Bmadgwick,

    Welcome to Cancer Chat although I'm sorry to read about what's brought you here. I can understand this must be very difficult and no doubt your emotions and thoughts about this will fluctuate.

    It may take some time to come to terms with this. Hopefully you have, or will get, some information about what to expect with your nan in terms of prognosis.

    It's lovely to hear you have lots of memories with her, and nothing will change this. From here simply try to take things a day at a time - as potentially cliched as that is - and make the most of the time with your nan. Also, keep speaking to others, including us on this forum where it's helpful, so that you can get support.

    If others here have any thoughts then hopefully they'll be along soon.

    Wishing you all the best,

    Ben
    Cancer Chat Moderator

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