My 32 year ilddaughter has an incurable cancer  and I'm her mum and her main emotional carer , I feel like nothing I do for her is enough , I can just about deal with the fact my daughter has cancer but it's the emotional cruel ness that comes from her towards me that hurts , I always try to look at it like how would I behave if I was in my daughters shoes , but nether the less it still hurts when she is so emotionally cruel to me , I practically have to beg her to go to her hospital appts with her oncologist only to be told by my daughter that I'm pushing her to go , I don't no if to take a step back and see if my daughter will go to her hospital appts without me pushing her to , is there anyone that maybe understands where I am coming from?