My husband was diagnosed with diffuse large B cell lymphoma stage 4 last week and although he's only 55 he seems to have no fight in him at all he's due to start chemotherapy next Friday and I've been trying to convince him that it's the right option I know no matter what I would like him to do it's his choice I'm just struggling to get him to see it's better to at least try it his consultant is phoning on Monday morning with the results of his pet scan but it's taken 8 months just to get to a diagnosis so I can understand his reluctance to agree I suppose I just need to vent we have a 10 yr old daughter that's special needs and in a wheelchair full time so she's hard work on her own and now this it's all knocked me for six