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Struggling to cope with my mother’s cancer

Inez
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Hello I'm Inez, 

My mum has been battling cancer for around 4 months, she's currently in hospital again after an infection. I have now been told it's widespread once again and growing even after her operation and although I remain positive around my mum it's hard to see any light. With the virus and my whole family being separated, I feel alone and panicked constantly. I want to stay strong for everyone but I can't stop thinking about losing my mum. 
 

On top of that I'm worrying about the future more than ever. My degree, looking after everyone, if I can even keep my mums somewhat dream house and our new puppy as me and my siblings are all around 20. 
 

any help or advice would be appreciated. Thank you 

  • Hello Inez

    I'm sorry to hear that your Mum is currently in hospital. It's obviously a very worrying time for you and all the family and we know that it can be difficult to remain positive at times like this. 

    I'm unsure from your post if you're currently spending lockdown alone or if you're living with another family member. Have you been able to speak to your siblings about how you're feeling? 
    I wonder if you might find it helpfu lto talk t hings through with one of our team of nurses. I'm sure that they will be able to offer some support and advice. You can call them on  0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm. 

    It's natural to be looking ahead and wondering about how things may be in the future. Try to keep a focus on the here and now as well. Looking too far ahead will cause you to feel more anxious about things. 

    I hope that some of our other members here will stop by to say Hello! and share any words of support and advice that they may have. Do look after yourself Inez. 
    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
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