life during lockdown

So my dad has about now a 30% chance of survival. I've started praying it calms me and gives me hope. It takes away the nervous gut feeling I always seem to half. I listened to some songs with my dad today and it just makes me sad because what happens if he dies all those song will just bring up memories of him that will make me miss and will probably get me really sad. I see the fear in my moms eyes as she looks at me and dad having a good times , a fear like it's not gonna last. I'm scared I don't want lose him. I love him and I'm afraid I'll never be same.

  • Hi there ...

    I'm so so sorry your going through this heartbraking time at the moment... it's one of the hardest things we go through.... I'm sure you just being there, and him having a hand to hold will mean more then you know... that's what we all want ...  

    I lost both parents in my 30s... and yes your right, life is never quite the same without them .. but we can tuck them up, safely in our hearts,  and carry them with us ... we are half of them ... they will see through your eyes... stand beside you ... you just won't see them ...

    So hold on to each hour / day .. leave nothing unsaid... share tears .. and hold his hand on his journey ..  like he held yours growing up ... sending a vertual hug.... Chrissie x